The party drama continues.

   Three days after the party the drama still pushes forward, I'm starting to see why some families choose to move apart and break away from each other.

     The following day, the drunk jealous girl sends out a sober, hung over and apologetic text to the group "I am sorry I bit the birthday girl, I am sorry I acted like a bitch." This is her normal life, cause problems and then just say sorry.

So I figured this should end the drama, oh but no. Not when it comes to girls and thier never ending search for drama.

My wife headed over to her 1/2 sisters as usual, but there was a underlying reason for the visit. She wanted to tell they version of the story she saw through her beer goggles.

"oh she was draped all over everyone's husbands or boyfriend. Touching and grabbing hugging and kissing...." My wife had to try to hold in her laughter. Because even though drunks may forget big portions of the event as a whole, so details remain tiny and clear. When you try to change the small moments they do remember, they'll notice.

As in the previous post, I mentioned handing my phone over well that minor detail was changed.

So as it went, I pulled my phone from my back pocket and offered it up...

The 1/2 sister version was the girl came over to me started rubbing on me and then took my phone.....far different. Oh but it gets better and I will quote her "oh well he is American and you think like one so you didn't see it, but the mexicans could see it".

But let's make this shit crystal clear right now, my relationship is not typical our lives are our own, we'll live them as we choose depending on what brings your joy and happiness.

There is no way on this beautiful earth that if a girl was hardcore making a pass at me and my wife had already pre-approved the extra friendship (non sexual) that I would've stood thier and not returned the advances.

The second part of the issue is there were 6 camera phones running all night 377 pictures were taking yet not a smidge of evidence in any of them? This was a rich huge house party, this was a get together of 13 people, which took place on a front porch that was a 12' x 12' area.

But she even had me doubting myself...did I miss the signs? Was there a girl draped all over me that was beautiful and I completely missed....HELL NO!!! I'm am ready to go at the drop of a panties. There is no way I missed that chance to go have drunk party "stuff" with my wife and her friend.

But then the truth began to come out, just like many friend before her niece didn't like her. The pervious party she was upset that same girl was invited, she tried to stir the pot at this last party and finally when we we're asked if we are inviting said girl to our next party the anwser was yes.  To hear the reply "Even after she was draped all over your husband"....

Dear dummies,
   Not liking a girl because she takes the time to work out (as a single mom of two) she takes the time to pick a perfect outfit, and wasn't born ugly isn't a good enough reason for me to hate her, but then I'm not a catty bitch.
I watch as friend after friend of my wife's disappeared because her niece and sister (1/2) didn't like said girl.

Thier biggest claim was she wants to take husband 2 from his wife... interesting is that why they have all 3 already been together? 

When you only read the cover you'll never understand the book.

The party of so-called friends

LaI went to a more or less adult birthday party for a girl this past weekend and what I saw (being the only non drinker) was amazing, how they call themselves friends.

The party began beautifully, they had the tables adorned with flowers and floating candles in those jello like beads in the vases. The catering was well done, except for the rubbery bacon they added to the bacon burgers. They also served homemade cucumber/pineapple juice, which was spiked for almost all adults (thier choosing).

The group make up was interesting and odd. Married, single w/ and w/o boyfriends races mixed throughout black, mexicans, philippino, white.
Most dressed causal, I personally wore my football stuff and  jeans, most everyone else except the birthday girl dressed the same....except that one friend. This girl rolled up in sleak form fitting dress with a peep hole for clevage and a slit up the back. She wasn't wearing something that didn't suit her, it fit perfectly, but it seemed she missed the family meal portion of the party, ala the pre drunk stage.

Now I know at this stage opinions maybe forming about her and they are warrented, but only because I know the end, so reserve judgement until later.

The married couples complimented the dress and moved on, but the bf/gf combos were getting upset, which is where first wtf moment lies.

Question #1 : Why do women get upset with a well dressed girl (well is subjective) who keeps herself in shape, all because they can't control the stares of thier boyfriends?

Once the food was served, the cook and his girlfriend began cleaning up. At one point the cook got caught by me starring down the girls clevage hole, so I began to flash smiles at his girlfriend who then return the looks. Amazing how as soon as a man thinks his gf is interested in another they drop thier dog games and cover thier territory.  He took her across the street and never once came back.

Once the cleaning was done the dress girl went home and changed, explained how she heard the whispers and decided it was best to head home and change to shorts and a shirt.

Question #2: Why, if this is a person that you call a friend for a few years now and know how she dresses....why not warn her or even allow your boyfriend or husband to make her feel that uncomfortable?

The party moves on and the reason I don't do drinking parties rises up and we meet again...the drama begins.

Question#3
If a friend is going through a rough patch with an Ex and feels being at the party is not good for them, what is it that makes you want to keep them there trying to convince them to stay?

Well it worked she stayed.

As a non drunk outsider I just stay in my lane watch and observe. They partied from 4-11pm without issues, but tention were rising, only thing was no one else noticed due to drinking.

One bf/gf combo was actually on the outs both thinking of an escape route, but one needs the lady's love and the other needed the money. Not a realtionship based on love, respect or adoration, but more a desire and nessacitiy..

They began beer pong w/ intermixed couples.(beer pong is not designed for you to win with the person you are trying hook up with, it is designed for you to sexual distract the person via enuendos across the table)

Well when the teams were made the married man doesn't care who his partner is, but the boyfriend gives a sad puppy look when the single girl is pulled from his team, what's worse is his girlfriend sees it.
Now the married guy is also upset because now instead of distracting the single girl he has to distract the married birthday girl and certain things are off the table towards a married woman.

Btw sober people named Brandon are far better at beer pong than drunks... ahahha FYI.

This is where I saw the most amazing use of technology in a long time. Nothing is more annoying that a married or a couple fighting at a party in front of friends so instead of the loud fight, they fought via text.

Now it isn't like people didn't notice, but they also didn't see what sober eyes see.  This begins the divide and this is where most of my questions stem from as it relates to women and thier friends.

4 people said stop fighting over the phone, the guy (bf) had his phone snatched away by the single girl, the same one he was eye balling before and the same one he was sad face for when she was pulled off his team. She then put his phone in her clevage, which as I've learned is the universal storage for women.

One husband said "well if you're puttin' boobies on phones, I already hit record". (Handing her his phone)
His wife saw this and said "He can't get his phone back with his hands".
The girl laughed and stood up and the phone slide down her pants..
The wife smiled and said "Same rules apply".
They laughed and giggled (note he was handed his phone later, it part of thier game...)

Now the other girl was far more jealous, but clueless as hell. It took 4 times for it to be mentioned before she even understood where his phone was.

Now to make this clear, the gf is overweight and lazy, the single girl is in shape and uses MMA training as her way of staying in shape .The gf says to the other girl (someone she calls friend)
The conversation went like this.

Single lady "I have your husbands phone"
Gf "I don't have a husband, I brought a guest".

Then it dawned on her, it lead to this:

"Give me his phone"... The girl begins to take the phones out
"Give me it now, or I will tear it out".

Question #4 Why would start a fight with a friend (of 2 years)  over a guy (2 months dating) who has nothing to offer and that you nor your friend are actually interested in?  Especially when you've mentioned how you want to leave him, but can't because then you gotta go to work.

She pulls both phones out, hands the bf phone over without issue.
"Here's your husband's too..."
"I already told you he can't have it until he pulls it out with his teeth, I'm not a jealous bitch".
(There is a long realtionship between wife 1 and gf, but to keep pasts out of it I am ommiting thier story..it is a 12 year friendship)
I doubt the the wife wanted this but to try and keep the birthday girl from seeing her party ruined she tried to keep it light.

But the jealous girl can't get over it and the single girl can't seem to understand why her friend would think she is capable of stealing her man.

I pulled the single girl aside to explain to her a bigger portion of what was going on with the GF, which actually did more damage than good, because I've known the gf for some time and she is usually on the side of receiving the conversation about acting right, but this time she was Ignored.

This is were I saw the true side of some ladies. The fight was over the girls even sat next to each other about 30mins after the fight.... but then the other BF/GF combo got involved, well the Girl anyways.

This girl pulls the girl aside they've been friends for 8 years also. Whatever was said the argument was back on....I was pissed, this isn't your party, it isn't your fight but you want to ruin both?  Worst of all she is family...well married into family but family.

Of course as people know once a person feels uncomfortable the party splinters in to groups of this person over that person. Can't both really be in the wrong? 

Okay so to clear a little air here, the party was playing spin the bottle (yes, they're over 30...it was odd to me too. But as I was told they don't this at every party....which blows my mind for so many reasons)

So it wasn't like these people aren't doing this that violates a code of a realtionship as a core value. So how can you be jealous prior to any real action happening, as a group that plays spin the bottle?

After the game began the bottle hit the single girl and the BF... and it was a dare, that was the final blow. As soon as the names were announced, the single girl's face said ...ahh fk, the boyfriends face was far different, he had that pervo look of yeah Finally, in which the girlfriend saw and said "We're leaving".

Not 30 secs after the girlfriend left the shit talking began it was epic, every other girl got the same treatment after leaving.

So the let out was rough and harsh, from both sides. But the final blow was delivered with this question "who here has gone out drinking with GF and it didn't end with her causing drama".  A pin could've dropped and been heard through the silence as they pondered the question, then nearly in unison they all agreed, it had NEVER happened.

So the party dwindling down only two married couples and the single girl. This is is when drunk stories fall apart.
She hangs out with all ex strippers, yet she isn't one and works at a funeral home... that's a lie and these so-called friends let her lie to my face, but I never stop and I will call you on your bullshit.

Then the pity party begins, she ask why she got left twice and divorced and both times the men grabbed bigger less in shape women.
Her marriage math, kids age math and relationship math didn't add up either unless she go married at 15. (She didn't)

So now that I get more information it made it easy to decide, you can be the most in shape and the most beautiful but if you're a pathological liar then you will eventually always be alone.

Question 5: why do you begin a new friendship based on a lie?

Donkey (jackass) or Elephant ( Just a bigger Ass)

So I recently decided I wanted to figure out step one of moronic American traditions voting. I wanted to find out what was the difference between the two are. I found this website http://www.markshannon.com/republicandemocrat.htm
I was reading and realized that anyone who says that they fall into anyone of these two categories using a merer 13 different ideas. So how does it work? like a majority thing like a 6 to 7 and you wing to the other side? Or is it 13-0 you have to believe all the ideas to be considered a Democrat or Republican? So if you don't take all 13 what is the next step, just forget or overlook those flaws that you don't agree with? Basically you just want to be label like everything else in this world. I really hope a republican or democrat responds at least fill me in in what I don't know. Here are some facts I do know. Your a moron. Oh let me justify it, First off it is bull because if you don't believe 100% the crap they are selling then then you faking it and not giving a fair vote to the American people your just following the crowd. Second thing to look at is guess what you have more than one republican and Democrat each time prior to the election. If you all believe the same old BS, why is there a vote. Hillary and Obama believe the same crap then their should be no challenge to see who gets to go after the white house.
So next time you vote, and you are voting for your party walk outside and take a dump on the american flag because that is what your doing to the American people each time you don't weigh the odds and just vote for your worthless party.
No matter who you vote for your wrong, why? your voting for a liar with false promises. Without being in the white house you cant' honestly say "I'll do X". The president might hope to do X, but can't promise it. This why I don't vote. Why waste my time to vote for someone that will do something wrong and screw up the country, one way or another.

Back again

Well, I am going to try and start this up again and see where it goes. I need a place to vent the dramas for the world we live in and those I face on a daily basis. Truly that is unfair to say since my life isn't really filled with Drama on a daily basis it is hit and miss I would say about 3-6 a month. I am not sure why I allow other people's stupidity to effect me. Maybe I just like to rant a little more than most.

Back by popular demand

Well by popular demand, my blog is back. I guess all three of my followers want to hear about my mundain life.

So to start last tuesday my instructor asked me to go first on the speeches to open the door for other people. He has figured out what most everyone already knew. I like being the center of attention and my self asteem is so high you could change the weather if you could climb up it.

Andrea and i have found a 70 y/o lady to watch Randy, since I can't do it. He screams when I hold him, he is scared by the sound of my voice. Sorry but I can't increase the pitch of my voice to sound like a fruit tart. He hates my singing, So there goes my american idol dreams. He is really calm with the lady, I have been here the 2 days that she watched him. She doesn't know how to put on diapers but everything is spot on and Randy likes her more than me.

1 or the bosses at the bar is trying to get me a job there which a part from being fun, I'll be making money. So bartendering here I come...maybe On that note school is going great, I wish this instructor taught all my classes and to think that this might be the best so far, There is chance for even better or worse teachers.

I found out the navy was trying to charge me for a class I didn't take. So they will be taking that off the money they expect me to pay. which is great.

I also thought of another reason why No one wants my mom to Move to Kentucky. Where will myself, randy and taylor stay when we come home? A hotel fuck that. My dad's house has someone else living there and sabrina's house is full with kids plus they lock their doors at night which means you have to be home at a certain time.

Now video games. In five years I have been playing world of warcraft I have never been able to find a class that sum up everything I enjoy and gives me the option to do both PVE and PVP....Until now. I recently decided to play a warlock. The pvp is so fun and the pve side of it is so easy. So until I can raid i will not know, but since it is a caster it shouldbe easy to like.

Father's day my first

So my first fathers day was slow boring and Fkin amazing. I was so tired I tried to get sleep in the afternoon bad fall out from being alone with the boy and having to get up at 5am. Anyways I got up the first time when my mom sent me a text message wishing me a happy fathers day, it was realy cool.

I told Andrea she didn't have to go out and get food to cook for me I would gladly make spagetti, She refused for good reason, she was talking randy, victor and herself to the swapmeet giving me the 2hours of sleep that I needed it was great. No sound no light no anything is was sweet. I woke up Right as she got home, She started coooking something of which a name for I do not know. It had beef shanks,with Nopals(catus) onions, and a few other herbs and spices, needless to say it was Delicious ( I did capitalize it on purpose). She also made me this cute little cup and stuffed it with candies that I like. Nothing is sweeter than a gift made by hand. She even used Mario wraping paper. I don't look a whole lot like him now since I have a goatee, but I still sing the song.

I made a phone call to talk to a friend I haven't talk to in awhile and have not seen in over a year, we chatted for about five mins before he told me he was hanging out with some people he wanted to hang out with them. No questions about my son, no happy fathers day. I guess I am being greedy for asking for someone else attention, I guess I should look at it from their point of veiw. I mean they were hanging out with people he can see everyday if he chooses. Oh well, My life is great it must suck not to be on the fun ship.

So with that convo over, I hopped on my video game and ran around with Sabrina and Rob that was fun times. I did what I wanted to do and some more, I got rob his bronze drake so he can ride around on a cool ass dragon. It is really cool to be running around with my sister and my cousin doing tons of dungeons. I can't wait til we can start raiding together, I am going to try and steal my sister away from her guild vega. Since she reads this it might be a little bit harder because she is very friend oriented.

Friday Mistakes made.

So for all those who thought, "Hey Brandon your gonna be a good dad" You fucking dumb, tell that shit to my kid. Who when I pick him up or he sees me he screams his head off. I can sit and rock him, feed him etc and all he does is scream. However Andrea's nephew takes him and does the same and he falls asleep in his arms. That is good?enoyable? etc? I am glad I have a kid, but when Andrea isn't home don't ask me if I would take it back becuase your not gonna like the anwser. When Andrea is holding him ALL DAY, like she has had to do after he got his shots (3 days) I love having him. When I have school at 5am and Randy is dead tired but to stupid to sleep, I hate it.
So the son I thought was going to be a great idea has back fired on me and become a screaming monster. I have never seen any other child the screams when his father touches him, like I am a complete stranger. I try and hold him for like 5-10mins like 4-5 times a day, but holding a kicking screaming baby is about as fun as slamming you fingers in a door. I can now see why so many adult turn to drinking. You do everything you can for your child for them to turn your back on you.
For those expecting another child keep your fingers crossed I have a GREAT job where I never have to be alone with my next kid. Go ahead tell me how the next one could love me and only want to be held by me etc etc etc. every weekend it is the same thing. Screaming, headaches, maybe 30-45 mins of sleeping per 5 hours until mommy gets home. Today is the first day it truly has effected my ability to do school, Since I have to be up at 5am.
I recently started looking in to meditation, becuase drinking is next, whatever I have to do to get some sleep, which is lame since I usally only need about 3hours to function well. Lets hope I can get to sleep before 2am.

Yeah they are coming slow

I know my post are getting far between 1 becuase nothig major is happening and 2 becuase I am reading more into economics. School is getting better and better, I enjoy the classes that I have and I can alreayd see the tempations of stopping school for working. I have been shying away from some chances at work because I have an idea in my mind currently. Normally at this point I would let the cat out of the bag, but this time I am going to keep it under wraps for the time being. School is awsome. I wish I was this way many years ago in high school, I wouldn't have needed to waste my time in the navy. Even though it is the only reason I am doing this, I am sure glad now that I wasted the time.

In life, all is grand on the daddy front. Randy got his second round of shots and being the dad I have to hold him while they jam a needle into his leg. The gave him 1 on monday and another 2 on wensday. It is kinda cool to see how things work as it is for babies. Up to 10 years old children get there shots for free. Economics is howing me so much more that what I knew before. One of my favorite things is "Everything is done as long as it benifits you", I have seen many people who disagree however it is true. As long as the benifits to you outway the cost to you, you'll do it. It also has made me focus more on what life is really about, because I have to focus on school I have been putting my family first. If people don't want to be a part of my family, then I just won't bother with you. My life is great no point letting people in it that only wish to bring it down. Randy is getting more and more mobile. Littler squeaks and squaks now I am assuming he is trying to talk.
I am trying to keep adding picture to my facebook of All of us as much as possible, so many of the pictures are repeats or look so much the same well not of Randy. Last night Andrea and I went through all of Randy's clothes and found tons that no longer fit. He looks so cute in his Lion King Oneis. Andrea said his Dolphins Jersey fits better, I am looking forward to the season might have to try it on once a month to make sure he doesn't out grow it.

My video game life. My guild got up to Lich King last night ( for my non-gamers, he is the ultimate point right now) We lost a good player So my druid has gone healing, it only took me 2 days to set him up to run the last dunegon. I am having such a great time with them. The server is having issues with the new patch so it has been down alot. It is still great non the less.

Well it is time to head out to school. I love you all who care and some who don't .

Yep I missed a day.

So I missed a day. Anways, I added pics from the birthday party that Andrea,randy and I attended. it was fun, I didn't get stuck cooking this time. We hung out, outside like outcasts with Andrea niece and her date. For whatever reason they don't hang out with other people. I ended up walking around with Randy becuase everyone wanted to hold him. Then last night we went the bar so Andrea could practice for the Pole dancing contest she got voted to do. I think Randy had a little bit of fun. We had him up on the stage watchign mom, until he got jealous, so she had to quit.

I feel bad for so many people whose lives are in such disaray. I take comfort in knowing my home life is awsome, Nothing in it I would change right now.

my Sat-night

So I was thinking about not adding my breakfast because it always seems the same. However since I had waffles this morning I figured I would put it down. After that I laid down next to Andrea and Randy and watched them sleep for like 4 hours.

Atfer we got up I played for a little bit I was going to go for a walk but now my mp4 player is messed up. It is flashing the stupid hourglass thing. Anyways so I cehcked out the website to fix it and it sucks, no real information.

Randy went to sleep around 3pm, We had a babysitter so we were gonna run up and get diapers. When I got pulled over, they wanted to take my truck becuase the owners agreement and my licence plates didn't match, I was worried. Going throught my papers I found my regestration bill and BAM right on it was the new licence plates, I lol'd. I showed them it an they said we are still gonna have to take it in. I said yeah lets do it, I know you laws too. Finally they said I am gonna let you go becuase your wife just had a baby....Yeah ok. I love living in Mexico. I now know how the geniusus feel when surround by average people. Randy asleep til 30 mins after Andrea left for work, it was kinda cool. After him being awake til about 11pm with both went tho sleep together and woke up when mom got home, it was a good run.