The party drama continues.

   Three days after the party the drama still pushes forward, I'm starting to see why some families choose to move apart and break away from each other.

     The following day, the drunk jealous girl sends out a sober, hung over and apologetic text to the group "I am sorry I bit the birthday girl, I am sorry I acted like a bitch." This is her normal life, cause problems and then just say sorry.

So I figured this should end the drama, oh but no. Not when it comes to girls and thier never ending search for drama.

My wife headed over to her 1/2 sisters as usual, but there was a underlying reason for the visit. She wanted to tell they version of the story she saw through her beer goggles.

"oh she was draped all over everyone's husbands or boyfriend. Touching and grabbing hugging and kissing...." My wife had to try to hold in her laughter. Because even though drunks may forget big portions of the event as a whole, so details remain tiny and clear. When you try to change the small moments they do remember, they'll notice.

As in the previous post, I mentioned handing my phone over well that minor detail was changed.

So as it went, I pulled my phone from my back pocket and offered it up...

The 1/2 sister version was the girl came over to me started rubbing on me and then took my phone.....far different. Oh but it gets better and I will quote her "oh well he is American and you think like one so you didn't see it, but the mexicans could see it".

But let's make this shit crystal clear right now, my relationship is not typical our lives are our own, we'll live them as we choose depending on what brings your joy and happiness.

There is no way on this beautiful earth that if a girl was hardcore making a pass at me and my wife had already pre-approved the extra friendship (non sexual) that I would've stood thier and not returned the advances.

The second part of the issue is there were 6 camera phones running all night 377 pictures were taking yet not a smidge of evidence in any of them? This was a rich huge house party, this was a get together of 13 people, which took place on a front porch that was a 12' x 12' area.

But she even had me doubting myself...did I miss the signs? Was there a girl draped all over me that was beautiful and I completely missed....HELL NO!!! I'm am ready to go at the drop of a panties. There is no way I missed that chance to go have drunk party "stuff" with my wife and her friend.

But then the truth began to come out, just like many friend before her niece didn't like her. The pervious party she was upset that same girl was invited, she tried to stir the pot at this last party and finally when we we're asked if we are inviting said girl to our next party the anwser was yes.  To hear the reply "Even after she was draped all over your husband"....

Dear dummies,
   Not liking a girl because she takes the time to work out (as a single mom of two) she takes the time to pick a perfect outfit, and wasn't born ugly isn't a good enough reason for me to hate her, but then I'm not a catty bitch.
I watch as friend after friend of my wife's disappeared because her niece and sister (1/2) didn't like said girl.

Thier biggest claim was she wants to take husband 2 from his wife... interesting is that why they have all 3 already been together? 

When you only read the cover you'll never understand the book.

The party of so-called friends

LaI went to a more or less adult birthday party for a girl this past weekend and what I saw (being the only non drinker) was amazing, how they call themselves friends.

The party began beautifully, they had the tables adorned with flowers and floating candles in those jello like beads in the vases. The catering was well done, except for the rubbery bacon they added to the bacon burgers. They also served homemade cucumber/pineapple juice, which was spiked for almost all adults (thier choosing).

The group make up was interesting and odd. Married, single w/ and w/o boyfriends races mixed throughout black, mexicans, philippino, white.
Most dressed causal, I personally wore my football stuff and  jeans, most everyone else except the birthday girl dressed the same....except that one friend. This girl rolled up in sleak form fitting dress with a peep hole for clevage and a slit up the back. She wasn't wearing something that didn't suit her, it fit perfectly, but it seemed she missed the family meal portion of the party, ala the pre drunk stage.

Now I know at this stage opinions maybe forming about her and they are warrented, but only because I know the end, so reserve judgement until later.

The married couples complimented the dress and moved on, but the bf/gf combos were getting upset, which is where first wtf moment lies.

Question #1 : Why do women get upset with a well dressed girl (well is subjective) who keeps herself in shape, all because they can't control the stares of thier boyfriends?

Once the food was served, the cook and his girlfriend began cleaning up. At one point the cook got caught by me starring down the girls clevage hole, so I began to flash smiles at his girlfriend who then return the looks. Amazing how as soon as a man thinks his gf is interested in another they drop thier dog games and cover thier territory.  He took her across the street and never once came back.

Once the cleaning was done the dress girl went home and changed, explained how she heard the whispers and decided it was best to head home and change to shorts and a shirt.

Question #2: Why, if this is a person that you call a friend for a few years now and know how she dresses....why not warn her or even allow your boyfriend or husband to make her feel that uncomfortable?

The party moves on and the reason I don't do drinking parties rises up and we meet again...the drama begins.

Question#3
If a friend is going through a rough patch with an Ex and feels being at the party is not good for them, what is it that makes you want to keep them there trying to convince them to stay?

Well it worked she stayed.

As a non drunk outsider I just stay in my lane watch and observe. They partied from 4-11pm without issues, but tention were rising, only thing was no one else noticed due to drinking.

One bf/gf combo was actually on the outs both thinking of an escape route, but one needs the lady's love and the other needed the money. Not a realtionship based on love, respect or adoration, but more a desire and nessacitiy..

They began beer pong w/ intermixed couples.(beer pong is not designed for you to win with the person you are trying hook up with, it is designed for you to sexual distract the person via enuendos across the table)

Well when the teams were made the married man doesn't care who his partner is, but the boyfriend gives a sad puppy look when the single girl is pulled from his team, what's worse is his girlfriend sees it.
Now the married guy is also upset because now instead of distracting the single girl he has to distract the married birthday girl and certain things are off the table towards a married woman.

Btw sober people named Brandon are far better at beer pong than drunks... ahahha FYI.

This is where I saw the most amazing use of technology in a long time. Nothing is more annoying that a married or a couple fighting at a party in front of friends so instead of the loud fight, they fought via text.

Now it isn't like people didn't notice, but they also didn't see what sober eyes see.  This begins the divide and this is where most of my questions stem from as it relates to women and thier friends.

4 people said stop fighting over the phone, the guy (bf) had his phone snatched away by the single girl, the same one he was eye balling before and the same one he was sad face for when she was pulled off his team. She then put his phone in her clevage, which as I've learned is the universal storage for women.

One husband said "well if you're puttin' boobies on phones, I already hit record". (Handing her his phone)
His wife saw this and said "He can't get his phone back with his hands".
The girl laughed and stood up and the phone slide down her pants..
The wife smiled and said "Same rules apply".
They laughed and giggled (note he was handed his phone later, it part of thier game...)

Now the other girl was far more jealous, but clueless as hell. It took 4 times for it to be mentioned before she even understood where his phone was.

Now to make this clear, the gf is overweight and lazy, the single girl is in shape and uses MMA training as her way of staying in shape .The gf says to the other girl (someone she calls friend)
The conversation went like this.

Single lady "I have your husbands phone"
Gf "I don't have a husband, I brought a guest".

Then it dawned on her, it lead to this:

"Give me his phone"... The girl begins to take the phones out
"Give me it now, or I will tear it out".

Question #4 Why would start a fight with a friend (of 2 years)  over a guy (2 months dating) who has nothing to offer and that you nor your friend are actually interested in?  Especially when you've mentioned how you want to leave him, but can't because then you gotta go to work.

She pulls both phones out, hands the bf phone over without issue.
"Here's your husband's too..."
"I already told you he can't have it until he pulls it out with his teeth, I'm not a jealous bitch".
(There is a long realtionship between wife 1 and gf, but to keep pasts out of it I am ommiting thier story..it is a 12 year friendship)
I doubt the the wife wanted this but to try and keep the birthday girl from seeing her party ruined she tried to keep it light.

But the jealous girl can't get over it and the single girl can't seem to understand why her friend would think she is capable of stealing her man.

I pulled the single girl aside to explain to her a bigger portion of what was going on with the GF, which actually did more damage than good, because I've known the gf for some time and she is usually on the side of receiving the conversation about acting right, but this time she was Ignored.

This is were I saw the true side of some ladies. The fight was over the girls even sat next to each other about 30mins after the fight.... but then the other BF/GF combo got involved, well the Girl anyways.

This girl pulls the girl aside they've been friends for 8 years also. Whatever was said the argument was back on....I was pissed, this isn't your party, it isn't your fight but you want to ruin both?  Worst of all she is family...well married into family but family.

Of course as people know once a person feels uncomfortable the party splinters in to groups of this person over that person. Can't both really be in the wrong? 

Okay so to clear a little air here, the party was playing spin the bottle (yes, they're over 30...it was odd to me too. But as I was told they don't this at every party....which blows my mind for so many reasons)

So it wasn't like these people aren't doing this that violates a code of a realtionship as a core value. So how can you be jealous prior to any real action happening, as a group that plays spin the bottle?

After the game began the bottle hit the single girl and the BF... and it was a dare, that was the final blow. As soon as the names were announced, the single girl's face said ...ahh fk, the boyfriends face was far different, he had that pervo look of yeah Finally, in which the girlfriend saw and said "We're leaving".

Not 30 secs after the girlfriend left the shit talking began it was epic, every other girl got the same treatment after leaving.

So the let out was rough and harsh, from both sides. But the final blow was delivered with this question "who here has gone out drinking with GF and it didn't end with her causing drama".  A pin could've dropped and been heard through the silence as they pondered the question, then nearly in unison they all agreed, it had NEVER happened.

So the party dwindling down only two married couples and the single girl. This is is when drunk stories fall apart.
She hangs out with all ex strippers, yet she isn't one and works at a funeral home... that's a lie and these so-called friends let her lie to my face, but I never stop and I will call you on your bullshit.

Then the pity party begins, she ask why she got left twice and divorced and both times the men grabbed bigger less in shape women.
Her marriage math, kids age math and relationship math didn't add up either unless she go married at 15. (She didn't)

So now that I get more information it made it easy to decide, you can be the most in shape and the most beautiful but if you're a pathological liar then you will eventually always be alone.

Question 5: why do you begin a new friendship based on a lie?

Donkey (jackass) or Elephant ( Just a bigger Ass)

So I recently decided I wanted to figure out step one of moronic American traditions voting. I wanted to find out what was the difference between the two are. I found this website http://www.markshannon.com/republicandemocrat.htm
I was reading and realized that anyone who says that they fall into anyone of these two categories using a merer 13 different ideas. So how does it work? like a majority thing like a 6 to 7 and you wing to the other side? Or is it 13-0 you have to believe all the ideas to be considered a Democrat or Republican? So if you don't take all 13 what is the next step, just forget or overlook those flaws that you don't agree with? Basically you just want to be label like everything else in this world. I really hope a republican or democrat responds at least fill me in in what I don't know. Here are some facts I do know. Your a moron. Oh let me justify it, First off it is bull because if you don't believe 100% the crap they are selling then then you faking it and not giving a fair vote to the American people your just following the crowd. Second thing to look at is guess what you have more than one republican and Democrat each time prior to the election. If you all believe the same old BS, why is there a vote. Hillary and Obama believe the same crap then their should be no challenge to see who gets to go after the white house.
So next time you vote, and you are voting for your party walk outside and take a dump on the american flag because that is what your doing to the American people each time you don't weigh the odds and just vote for your worthless party.
No matter who you vote for your wrong, why? your voting for a liar with false promises. Without being in the white house you cant' honestly say "I'll do X". The president might hope to do X, but can't promise it. This why I don't vote. Why waste my time to vote for someone that will do something wrong and screw up the country, one way or another.

Back again

Well, I am going to try and start this up again and see where it goes. I need a place to vent the dramas for the world we live in and those I face on a daily basis. Truly that is unfair to say since my life isn't really filled with Drama on a daily basis it is hit and miss I would say about 3-6 a month. I am not sure why I allow other people's stupidity to effect me. Maybe I just like to rant a little more than most.

Back by popular demand

Well by popular demand, my blog is back. I guess all three of my followers want to hear about my mundain life.

So to start last tuesday my instructor asked me to go first on the speeches to open the door for other people. He has figured out what most everyone already knew. I like being the center of attention and my self asteem is so high you could change the weather if you could climb up it.

Andrea and i have found a 70 y/o lady to watch Randy, since I can't do it. He screams when I hold him, he is scared by the sound of my voice. Sorry but I can't increase the pitch of my voice to sound like a fruit tart. He hates my singing, So there goes my american idol dreams. He is really calm with the lady, I have been here the 2 days that she watched him. She doesn't know how to put on diapers but everything is spot on and Randy likes her more than me.

1 or the bosses at the bar is trying to get me a job there which a part from being fun, I'll be making money. So bartendering here I come...maybe On that note school is going great, I wish this instructor taught all my classes and to think that this might be the best so far, There is chance for even better or worse teachers.

I found out the navy was trying to charge me for a class I didn't take. So they will be taking that off the money they expect me to pay. which is great.

I also thought of another reason why No one wants my mom to Move to Kentucky. Where will myself, randy and taylor stay when we come home? A hotel fuck that. My dad's house has someone else living there and sabrina's house is full with kids plus they lock their doors at night which means you have to be home at a certain time.

Now video games. In five years I have been playing world of warcraft I have never been able to find a class that sum up everything I enjoy and gives me the option to do both PVE and PVP....Until now. I recently decided to play a warlock. The pvp is so fun and the pve side of it is so easy. So until I can raid i will not know, but since it is a caster it shouldbe easy to like.

Father's day my first

So my first fathers day was slow boring and Fkin amazing. I was so tired I tried to get sleep in the afternoon bad fall out from being alone with the boy and having to get up at 5am. Anyways I got up the first time when my mom sent me a text message wishing me a happy fathers day, it was realy cool.

I told Andrea she didn't have to go out and get food to cook for me I would gladly make spagetti, She refused for good reason, she was talking randy, victor and herself to the swapmeet giving me the 2hours of sleep that I needed it was great. No sound no light no anything is was sweet. I woke up Right as she got home, She started coooking something of which a name for I do not know. It had beef shanks,with Nopals(catus) onions, and a few other herbs and spices, needless to say it was Delicious ( I did capitalize it on purpose). She also made me this cute little cup and stuffed it with candies that I like. Nothing is sweeter than a gift made by hand. She even used Mario wraping paper. I don't look a whole lot like him now since I have a goatee, but I still sing the song.

I made a phone call to talk to a friend I haven't talk to in awhile and have not seen in over a year, we chatted for about five mins before he told me he was hanging out with some people he wanted to hang out with them. No questions about my son, no happy fathers day. I guess I am being greedy for asking for someone else attention, I guess I should look at it from their point of veiw. I mean they were hanging out with people he can see everyday if he chooses. Oh well, My life is great it must suck not to be on the fun ship.

So with that convo over, I hopped on my video game and ran around with Sabrina and Rob that was fun times. I did what I wanted to do and some more, I got rob his bronze drake so he can ride around on a cool ass dragon. It is really cool to be running around with my sister and my cousin doing tons of dungeons. I can't wait til we can start raiding together, I am going to try and steal my sister away from her guild vega. Since she reads this it might be a little bit harder because she is very friend oriented.

Friday Mistakes made.

So for all those who thought, "Hey Brandon your gonna be a good dad" You fucking dumb, tell that shit to my kid. Who when I pick him up or he sees me he screams his head off. I can sit and rock him, feed him etc and all he does is scream. However Andrea's nephew takes him and does the same and he falls asleep in his arms. That is good?enoyable? etc? I am glad I have a kid, but when Andrea isn't home don't ask me if I would take it back becuase your not gonna like the anwser. When Andrea is holding him ALL DAY, like she has had to do after he got his shots (3 days) I love having him. When I have school at 5am and Randy is dead tired but to stupid to sleep, I hate it.
So the son I thought was going to be a great idea has back fired on me and become a screaming monster. I have never seen any other child the screams when his father touches him, like I am a complete stranger. I try and hold him for like 5-10mins like 4-5 times a day, but holding a kicking screaming baby is about as fun as slamming you fingers in a door. I can now see why so many adult turn to drinking. You do everything you can for your child for them to turn your back on you.
For those expecting another child keep your fingers crossed I have a GREAT job where I never have to be alone with my next kid. Go ahead tell me how the next one could love me and only want to be held by me etc etc etc. every weekend it is the same thing. Screaming, headaches, maybe 30-45 mins of sleeping per 5 hours until mommy gets home. Today is the first day it truly has effected my ability to do school, Since I have to be up at 5am.
I recently started looking in to meditation, becuase drinking is next, whatever I have to do to get some sleep, which is lame since I usally only need about 3hours to function well. Lets hope I can get to sleep before 2am.

Yeah they are coming slow

I know my post are getting far between 1 becuase nothig major is happening and 2 becuase I am reading more into economics. School is getting better and better, I enjoy the classes that I have and I can alreayd see the tempations of stopping school for working. I have been shying away from some chances at work because I have an idea in my mind currently. Normally at this point I would let the cat out of the bag, but this time I am going to keep it under wraps for the time being. School is awsome. I wish I was this way many years ago in high school, I wouldn't have needed to waste my time in the navy. Even though it is the only reason I am doing this, I am sure glad now that I wasted the time.

In life, all is grand on the daddy front. Randy got his second round of shots and being the dad I have to hold him while they jam a needle into his leg. The gave him 1 on monday and another 2 on wensday. It is kinda cool to see how things work as it is for babies. Up to 10 years old children get there shots for free. Economics is howing me so much more that what I knew before. One of my favorite things is "Everything is done as long as it benifits you", I have seen many people who disagree however it is true. As long as the benifits to you outway the cost to you, you'll do it. It also has made me focus more on what life is really about, because I have to focus on school I have been putting my family first. If people don't want to be a part of my family, then I just won't bother with you. My life is great no point letting people in it that only wish to bring it down. Randy is getting more and more mobile. Littler squeaks and squaks now I am assuming he is trying to talk.
I am trying to keep adding picture to my facebook of All of us as much as possible, so many of the pictures are repeats or look so much the same well not of Randy. Last night Andrea and I went through all of Randy's clothes and found tons that no longer fit. He looks so cute in his Lion King Oneis. Andrea said his Dolphins Jersey fits better, I am looking forward to the season might have to try it on once a month to make sure he doesn't out grow it.

My video game life. My guild got up to Lich King last night ( for my non-gamers, he is the ultimate point right now) We lost a good player So my druid has gone healing, it only took me 2 days to set him up to run the last dunegon. I am having such a great time with them. The server is having issues with the new patch so it has been down alot. It is still great non the less.

Well it is time to head out to school. I love you all who care and some who don't .

Yep I missed a day.

So I missed a day. Anways, I added pics from the birthday party that Andrea,randy and I attended. it was fun, I didn't get stuck cooking this time. We hung out, outside like outcasts with Andrea niece and her date. For whatever reason they don't hang out with other people. I ended up walking around with Randy becuase everyone wanted to hold him. Then last night we went the bar so Andrea could practice for the Pole dancing contest she got voted to do. I think Randy had a little bit of fun. We had him up on the stage watchign mom, until he got jealous, so she had to quit.

I feel bad for so many people whose lives are in such disaray. I take comfort in knowing my home life is awsome, Nothing in it I would change right now.

my Sat-night

So I was thinking about not adding my breakfast because it always seems the same. However since I had waffles this morning I figured I would put it down. After that I laid down next to Andrea and Randy and watched them sleep for like 4 hours.

Atfer we got up I played for a little bit I was going to go for a walk but now my mp4 player is messed up. It is flashing the stupid hourglass thing. Anyways so I cehcked out the website to fix it and it sucks, no real information.

Randy went to sleep around 3pm, We had a babysitter so we were gonna run up and get diapers. When I got pulled over, they wanted to take my truck becuase the owners agreement and my licence plates didn't match, I was worried. Going throught my papers I found my regestration bill and BAM right on it was the new licence plates, I lol'd. I showed them it an they said we are still gonna have to take it in. I said yeah lets do it, I know you laws too. Finally they said I am gonna let you go becuase your wife just had a baby....Yeah ok. I love living in Mexico. I now know how the geniusus feel when surround by average people. Randy asleep til 30 mins after Andrea left for work, it was kinda cool. After him being awake til about 11pm with both went tho sleep together and woke up when mom got home, it was a good run.

Woot 100 Posts....well this is 101

So up again nice and early, Damn I knew that would be a back mistake. I forgot Andrea was going to work tonight Ouch. At least Andrea's nephew was here to help. I guess I am not as good a dad as everythign thinks, I can't even take care of my kid alone.

So the day took off like normal, hit the store got some food, etc. Andrea an I showered, I hoped on my game. It was horrible the loot drops and the stuff I did want I couldn't win. But I got into ICC and there it was awsome. I ended up picking up a neck pieace I really needed and a T10 upgrade token. So it was pretty good overall.

Around 10pm I logged of becuase I was trying to calm Randy down. Nope he wasn't having any of it. I don't buy this your baby cries jst becuase sometimes. Bullshit he is a woman. ( don't get offended you know you do it) Anyways he wasn't having this formula stuff, so it was a fight all night long. first me for an Hour walking around trying to get him to stop screaming in my ear. then carlos then victor. Finally I think he just passed out. Around 3am he was up again. The pacifier worked, but he just can't be un held, even if I am an inch from him.

The day before the date above

So I got up early again ready for school another emcon day. I set up all my stuff for school, and had a nice big breakfast. couple cups of coffee. Yeah I tried with the cinanmon. It wasn't amazing like I thought it would be but it was decent. I haven't decided if I would do it again or not though.

I logged on to world of warcraft and ran thru my dailies, when a ICC raid fell into my lap. Since I wasn't gonna be able to make the guild run that night I figured what the hell. It went pretty good for downing 5 bosses, we are gonna contiune on sunday. It was two o clock Andrea had made me something i am not sue what it was for dinner and to take to school. I was checking my email and I got one from the instructor, saying we are not having class today he had a family emergency. I am glad i checked my e-mail I normally don't that would have suck to wait in th eborder line ride the trolley on to find the class is cancelled. However I am supposed to read chapters 3-4 this weekend. But since I slacked on tell my sister what book I needed and when. I will be behind a little. Oh well like I always say "Don't call it a comeback" I like being here.

I so I hung out with Andrea,randy and the cats outside. I was chatting with Andrea and catching some sun for my pale ass. It was kinda fun being outside. Randy sleeps well outside, inside he hates it. So I guess I am gonna have to have a house with a front and back yard. I can't wait til we are playing football int he front yard it will be awsome. So after a few hours I hopped around the net, looking at house in tijuana and submitting my application to west marine. Kinda worried about the next steps in life I hung out with the two people that I know will be there every step of the way. Love you Andrea and Randy.

See you all tomarrow.

Not sure if I should leave dates since I am a day behind every day.

So I noticed I tell people the date of the blog and blogger has another date above it doh. anyways if I keep everything up there is no reason to need it.

Now that I am on a school schedule I am gettign up early. So I was up around 6am, enough time to make some breakfast, pancakes and my coffee. I hoped on and did my blog I think that morning or the night before oh well sometime. I started playing wow, knocked out my dailies but it was getting boring so I swapped to Demon's souls. Andrea was up and around trying to control the boy, but he is getting more and more fussy everyday. I want up I want down I am tired but I am not gonna sleep without someone holding me. Finally around 11 he decided he was gonna stop crying about it and just sleep. As you can see in the picture, he sleeps with his mouth open like his mommy drooling on everything.

Andrea worked on her mom's website and I worked on my Outboard motor stuff. Oh yeah I didn't mention that to anyone yet. oh well. Here it goes. West Marine, which is a huge supplier in San Diego, they also supply to the navy. Well they are hiring and I know a few people there. So the long and short of it are this, I would be working right next to my school, Making almost double what the navy is paying me on top of what the navy is paying me. If I get the job I am buying a house in Tijuana and this is were I am gonna stay for the next 10-20 years. I do not have the job yet Andrea and I are still discussing it there are few details I need to sort through etc.

So anyways I killed the dragon in demon's souls I felt so cool about it since you really not supposed to. All in all I would have to say the day was pretty fun, Andrea and I messed around trying to get her ready for her contest and I played with Randy, he can almost hold his head up alone, he is really trying to stay standing but the balance isn't there yet. Love you all.

Back by Popular demand. Tuesday June 1st

No one really asked for it but I am doing it anyways. So I am gonna sum up a few months real quick.

Randy and I are spending more time alone with Andrea getting back into the job world, since there was a mix up in my school and the navy paying me. Andrea's niece who is taking care of her 1 younger brother has moved away from her old house and in to our house for the time being it is pretty full here. Since she has another place but her mom has stuffed all her crap into it. Maritza no longer sees it as her own place with her mom, brother and other brother staying there.

Andrea got entered into the Tubefest, Pole dancing competition that she took second place in 2 years ago because of a scam. This year the tournament is being sponsored by the airlines. not by the bar So the panel is being made up of 5 judges 2 of which are pilots,1 Stewardess, and two airlines owners. The grand Prize is (2) person round trip to A destination of their choosing up to 1k dollars, and 1k dollars. Second is a trip , and third is 500 dollars. I Added her application picture to the blog. She looks amazing...I would add for having a baby a month ago but honestly there is no need.

Thanks to Mom and Sabrina I also added a pic of me and Randy side by side. Along with all his grunts and moans while sleeping that mimic mine here is a pic that shows us together.

Tuesday beings, with me getting up around 7am, checking out my video game which should have been down for maintenance. It was so I decided to play on trying to get the daily things I do trying to make my Character Rivenwolf better. The same character I am trying to write a story about but having difficulties with the druid class (job) he is. Around 8am I decided it was time for breakfast I started my coffee, and because of the show two and 1/2 men I started adding cinnamon to my coffee to give it that as charlie sheen say "Christmasy" taste. Guess what it sucked, it doesn't feel anything like Christmas and I can't even taste the cinnamon and I love cinnamon. So I made a famous egg sandwich, 2 eggs, 2 ham slices, and cheese on a sesame seed bun. Yummy. Back to playing my video game listening to Andrea snore, Maritza snore and every now and again Randy grunt as he moves. So a few friends came online we chatted about the weekend etc. I logged off around 10am to getting some things ready for my first day back at school.

I go to show Andrea my pictures on Facebook, (note: we have been arguing a a lot because of her family again, it is crazy because they want to come over here and eat and then leave a mess and I am tired of it) So as I open my facebook I notice my pictures are gone....Andrea says yeah I did that because you were being a dick. This pissed me off, she acted like it was my fault she got on to my page and messed it up. I decided fine I can leave for school at 12 noon, normally I leave at 3pm. Her tude changed when I went in the other bathroom. We had a nice long convo about trying to act tough in from of her niece and nephew. So she is working on getting all my pics back up again.

Andrea and I headed up to the pawn shop to pawn her Nintedo DS for some money to buy food, since she has a client coming down next week that should make her enough money to get it out. She never uses it anyways, she keeps it because I bought it for her I think. The place where they sell fishing was actually selling chicken funny thing that is what Andrea wanted to eat. so we got to full chickens for under 8 bucks and headed home. It was 2:20 when we got home just enough time for me to eat and go to school. I carried randy down to my truck gave him and her a few kisses, we went back up to get a picture of use three and we kissed, then back down stairs her and I, we kissed again like school kids hiding behind the bleachers. Then at my truck again. I started my truck and she went back up and tossed my down some sunflower seeds.

I got to the border line just in time for shift change, it was fun I was talking to this old lady and her friends about how you can use a ID and Birth certificate to cross the border, the guard started making comments about this and that and I slammed him with reason why they are slow he was glad for the shift change. so the next young moron decided to start in on me. I told him I have been doing this for over 10 years now you're full of shit. You can cross without a passport and you do nothing. He tried to blame it being slow for the shift change. I said Hey even after the shift changes ends we still have to wait for morons who are to cheap to buy a passport ( I know there are people who can't get them), Because it takes longer for them to go across. He said it is a crime and goes on their record, I lol'd out loud. SO I asked him "so what sort of crime using finger quotes is it than? He said I am not talking to you, I was talking to the lady. So the last thing I said is fine I just stand here with my Bullshit flag raised nice and high. Why do people think that can bullshit anyone. Maybe the good bullshitters should where a pin or something so other bullshitters know that we can't be touched.

So I arrive at my school, I head straight to the deans office and make my complaints about my last teacher, long story anyways she sucked period. I will never do another online course unless it is 100% mandatory, because of her. Normally I would say saying "it sucked" is not a answer but today it is going to be the answer I give. The new teacher is Hindu I think, but he is very enthusiastic about economics so I like him. I got in a group with a guy who I think is gay or just sounds that way, so big white guy not me, and two Chinese guys, now I don't mean they look he is Chinese and speaks perfect English. I mean like using facebook, wikipedia, etc all in Chinese it was crazy cool to see the websites translated in to lines.

Wensday boring

So we have chicken today and Andrea spent all day chatting with friends online.

Yeah I know you were hoping to read my veiws on why women are not equal to men....Sorry I'll let you live in the world of fantasy where women can do everything a man can do. While dreaming this dream, do me a favor go outside lift up you car and move the rear end over 10ft why you might need to do it one day, maybe tomarrow I will explain. If you can do it your close to equal.

Wensday 04 ?? 10 someday

So, I have another complaint ....go figure. I have been thinking alot about this women saying " I carried our baby for nine months". ( Thank god Andrea doesn't use this) so here is my beef with it. Does you husband come home and say I paid the bills, I gave you food, I go to work everyday? No I don't think so. Why? Becuase you don't get priase for doing what you have to do.

So with that being said, Stop it women. I have had a belly for 6-8 years and it is the size of a 3-5 month old baby, I learn to deal with it, Oh wait now your gonna say it doesn't move...Bullshit a hungry fat mans belly will move like a small earthquake. Any real man would gladly take 4.5 months to help you out if he could but we can't.

So here is a question can your baby born without carrying him, ( aside from costing you thousands) the anwser is NO, of course not and you knew this fact going into this thing, don't expect praise for something you HAD TO DO.

So second question. Can you have a baby without, 3am runs to the store dead tired just becuase your wife wants something special, consoling you when you have a crying spell, listen to you when you want things in the house moved around, going to the obgyn with you, lamas class with you, or dealing with you constant mood swings? Without any of these things you will still give birth to a brand new baby. All these things YOUR MAN did are extras, we did them without complaint becuase we love you.

Tommarrow topic "Women stop asking for equality, your no an equal" Now I know your thinking I am an asshole, stoping thinking low of yourself, just becuase your not equal doesn't mean you a lesser person, for all you know you can be better.

So next time your thinking about saying " I carried your baby for nine months" This of the support you had from you Boyfriend, husband or anyone else helping you.

Tuesday and week later...

So the newness has worn off, Being a dad FUCKING sucks. All he wants is the titty and his mommy. I hold him he cries, I feed him, burp him then he cries until mommy is holding him. So when does the fun begin? So far it was good for like the first few days now it is fucking lame. Guess what I get to hold my kid when he is asleep, can cry then.

So since I am on a rant, who the fuck invented baby socks, they wiggle their feet so god damn much the socks don't stay on. Well I guess they convinced enough people they were worth a damn.

IF very big IF, we have another kid fuck breast feeding. Never again this is the suckiest thing ever. I think he is giving himself hiccups becuase Andrea will give him boob if he gets them, I even tried to burp him,sing to him rock him walk around the house with him. the hiccups stayed through everything, pop a boob in his mouth and bam it is over.

tuesday.....boring

I made mashed potatos and gucamole. did my homework. norhing to complain about.

Monday 04/19/10

well I think it is starting to get to us now. We took the boy to the grocery store, he slept thru the whole thing, I showed him off to a few friends he slept thru the whole thing, we went to the doctors office, they ran out of Andrea shot, so I spoke with another doctor, she said they are required to take 3-5. Never more than five, Andrea had four, I think that is good enough lets give her butt a rest it is starting to look like a pin cushion.

But it I am starting to get annoyed, he always wants teh bobbie even turning down the bottle, It kinda sucks Andrea has to carryt he whole load, I wanna help to but he just isn't having any of it, it is kinda heart breaking. I know what your gonna say just wait til he gets older blah blah, I want it now and later.

Sat 04-18-10...I think. Numbering days sucks

So for everyone out in web land. I finally got to chat with my brother, he is finding a new place. People should go visist him, shit it aint like it is far and like you need a exucse to go out to Las Vegas, just think if you go visit him maybe you;ll see what the city has to offer and not lose all your money. Also if you thinking this is lip service he doesn't read my blog so ha.

Anyways, I didn't sleep at all, from Dave's snoring (just kidding) and the Baby, alright to be completely honest It was becuase dave drove his car down here and not enough people know of his car, if they knew it was mine they wouldn't touch it, nothing is scarier that and fat naked guy yelling at you chasing you down the block, it wouldn't be the first time.

So I took Mom and dave to their hotel, after we went to costco, I don't know what is better having a extremly loving family or a vey suportive family, damn i am glad I have both. Randy will grow up with such love in his life, between Andrea and my family. I can't thank my family enough. The sayin always was "with friends like that, who needs enemies". Well I am changing it to "With family like mine, who needs friends".